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Keeping Children Safe Online
Social media is popular with children and teenagers. It's a great way to stay connected with friends and family, but it can also be a dangerous place. Predators can use social media to contact and groom potential victims, and children can be exposed to inappropriate content. So, how can we keep our children safe on social media?At Safesocialonline.com children age 6 - 17 must be enrolled by a parent.  No other adults can see a child's account, and children cannot see other adult accounts.  This way we eliminate the threat of predatory users. If a child posts something inappropriate the parent is notified so a conversation can take place to guide the child on appropriate language and content.
Remembering 9/11 Twenty Years Later
How did you observe the 20th anniversary of 9/11? Was this event overshadowed by results of US withdrawal from Afghanistan?  We held the Taliban off for 20 years, but really only stopped them for 1 week.  It was a sad day when terrorists flew planes into buildings, and a sad day when the Taliban took back over.  I will always remember the first responders who paid the ultimate price with their lives or their health!  
Social Media Giants Read Your Email and Sell Your Online Activity
When you “like” something on Facebook, your interests are sold to online advertisers so they know which ads to show you.  Gmail reads your emails to choose ads to show you.  Google Maps provides your location to nearby advertisers.Big Data companies scour your online behavior and sell this information. Did you search for information about a new prescription?  Advertisers now know about your medical conditions.  Did you research a mental health issue?  Advertisers now know about your family problems.  Did you search for the best price on disposable diapers?  Big Data now knows you have a new baby, and where you live.  This has to stop.  That is why Safe Social Online was created.  Your activi
On Leadership
"Real leaders are happy to zig while others zag. They understand that in an era of hyper-competition and non-stop disruption, the only way to stand out from the crowd is to stand for something special. They don't follow where the path may lead, they go instead where there is no path and leave a trail". "Bill Taylor, and Ralph Waldo Emerson."
Good Morning!
Wisdom benefits those who see the sun therefore, everyday is a good day when you can talk about it. No matter if you feel it is Good, or Bad. To be able to talk about it means it is a good day. Just think about those that have had problems and can't ever talk to you about them again! 
It's a beautiful day!
It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood 😃 
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The Five Biggest Problems with Instagram

Here are 5 bullet points summarizing the worst problems at Instagram recently: (written by Claude, an AI Chatbot supported by ethical altruism) https://claude.ai

  • Major service outages preventing access and disrupting users
  • Algorithm issues showing irrelevant content and impacting exposure for creators
  • Failure to effectively moderate harmful/dangerous content
  • Excessive mimicking of TikTok features and over-promoting Reels
  • Declining revenue and user growth, leading parent company Meta to make cost cuts


What's Wrong at Twitter?

Here are 5 bullet points about the potential dangers of Twitter:(written by Claude, an AI Chatbot supported by ethical altruism) 

  • Spread of misinformation - Twitter makes it easy to share information quickly without fact checking, allowing false or misleading claims to spread rapidly. This can promote conspiracy theories, impact elections, etc.
  • Cyberbullying and harassment - The anonymity and public nature of Twitter facilitates abusive behavior like trolling, dogpiling, doxxing, etc. This can cause real psychological harm.
  • Addiction and wasted time - Twitter's endless feed and notifications can be habit-forming and distracting, taking time away from more meaningful activities.
  • Privacy risks - Tweets are public and biographical info is visible, raising privacy concerns. Location tagging poses risks. Data collection/monetization issues.
  • Polarization and extremism - Twitter conversations tend to become polarized. Extremist ideologies can spread through Twitter networks. Echo chambers and lack of productive discourse.
  • Curation of unrealistic lives - Twitter shows idealized versions of peoples' lives. This can foster feelings of inadequacy and depression when comparing oneself.

What's Wrong at Facebook?

Here are 5 bullet points on the dangers of Facebook: (written by Claude, an AI Chatbot supported by ethical altruism)

  • Privacy issues - Facebook has faced criticism over its handling of user data and privacy settings. There are concerns about how much personal information Facebook collects and shares.
  • Spread of misinformation - The open nature of Facebook makes it easy for false or misleading content to spread quickly on the platform. This can impact politics, health information, and more.
  • Cyberbullying and harassment - Facebook can be used as a platform to bully, harass or threaten others, especially among younger users. This can have serious mental health implications.
  • Social media addiction - Some research indicates that excessive social media usage, including Facebook, may lead to symptoms of addiction due to things like dopamine hits from notifications.
  • Negative effects on mental health - Studies link heavy social media use with increased rates of depression, anxiety, and loneliness. Facebook usage in particular has been associated with declining well-being.

What Does ChatGPT Artificial Intelligence Say About Social Media?

I asked ChatGPT:  

Tell me what is wrong with social media?

Answer:

  • Social media has become an integral part of our daily lives, providing us with the ability to stay connected with our friends, family, and communities. However, there are several issues with social media that can have a negative impact on our mental health and well-being.
  • One major issue with social media is addiction. Social media platforms are designed to keep us engaged with constant updates, notifications, messages, and content. This can lead to excessive use, which may adversely affect our productivity and interpersonal relationships.
  • Another issue with social media is cyberbullying. It involves the use of social media platforms to facilitate online bullying, harassment, or hate speech directed at specific individuals or groups. This can harm the mental health and well-being of victims and contribute to a toxic online environment. 

  • Fake news is also a significant problem with social media. Social media platforms have become the ubiquitous distributors of information, which may result in the spread of misinformation and fake news. This can be detrimental to public awareness, especially during crises like the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. 

  • Privacy and security risks are also a concern with social media. Social media platforms collect personal information from users, which may be misused or fall into the wrong hands, leading to privacy and security breaches. 

  • Lastly, social media can foster a negative self-image and low self-esteem due to the pressure of presenting a perfect life online. People tend to constantly compare themselves to others online, which may lead to feelings of inadequacy or feeling left out. 

  • Overall, social media can have a negative impact on our mental and emotional well-being if used excessively or inappropriately. It is crucial to be mindful of our social media use and setting boundaries to prevent negative effects that can harm our mental health.

Are American Voters Asleep at the Wheel of Democracy?

How can Any Political Career survive the allegations against former President Trump unless voters are completely asleep at the wheel ?  
Source:  https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/19/us/politics/trump-investigations.html


Dissecting Charges That Could Arise From the Trump Investigations


Prosecutors in New York, Georgia and the Justice Department face complex choices about what crimes to charge if they decide to indict Donald Trump.

Former President Donald J. Trump is being investigated on numerous fronts.




Charlie Savage

By Charlie Savage


March 19, 2023


WASHINGTON — Prosecutors like to say that they investigate crimes, not people. The looming decision by the Manhattan district attorney about whether to indict former President Donald J. Trump on charges related to an alleged hush money payment to a porn actress is highlighting the complexity of the legal calculations being made by prosecutors in New York, Georgia and the Justice Department as they examine Mr. Trump’s conduct on a number of fronts.

The investigations — which also focus on Mr. Trump’s efforts to cling to power after the 2020 election and his handling of classified documents after leaving office — are confronting prosecutors with tough choices. They must decide whether and how to charge not just Mr. Trump, but also associates who could face jeopardy for actions to which he was not a direct party, like mail or wire fraud for communications that he did not participate in.

The publicly known understanding of the evidence is incomplete. It is not clear, for example, in several instances what facts investigators have been able to gather about Mr. Trump’s personal knowledge, directions and intentions related to several of the matters.


Here is a look at some of the criminal laws that different prosecutors appear to be weighing and how they might apply to Mr. Trump’s actions.


Stormy Daniels wearing a striped shirt and a necklace.
Stormy Daniels was paid $130,000.Credit...Markus Schreiber/Associated Press

Stormy Daniels wearing a striped shirt and a necklace.



The Stormy Daniels Hush Money Payment

Overview

Alvin L. Bragg, the Manhattan district attorney, appears to be nearing a decision about whether to charge Mr. Trump with a crime related to his $130,000 hush money payment just before the 2016 election to the pornographic film actress Stormy Daniels, who has said they had an extramarital affair. Michael D. Cohen, Mr. Trump’s former lawyer and fixer, sent the money to Ms. Daniels, and the Trump Organization reimbursed him over the course of 2017, according to a 2018 federal court filing in Mr. Cohen’s case. Mr. Trump’s business concealed the true purpose of the payments, the filing said, by recording them as having been for a legal retainer that did not exist.

Potential charge: Bookkeeping fraud

The New York Times has reported that the case may include a potential charge of falsifying business records under Article 175 of the New York Penal Law. A conviction for a felony version of bookkeeping fraud carries a sentence of up to four years.

To prove that Mr. Trump committed that offense, prosecutors would seemingly need evidence showing that he had knowingly caused subordinates to make a false entry in his company’s records “with intent to defraud.” For the action to be a felony rather than a misdemeanor, prosecutors would also need to show that Mr. Trump falsified the business records with the intention of committing, aiding or concealing a second crime.

The public understanding of Mr. Bragg’s theory of the case remains murky and incomplete. The district attorney’s office has reportedly weighed invoking alleged campaign-finance violations as that intended second crime, which could raise complications. Among other things, presidential elections are governed by federal law, and it is not clear whether Mr. Bragg has found a theory by which a state campaign law covered Mr. Trump’s actions, or if a state prosecutor can cite a law over which he lacks jurisdiction. It remains possible that Mr. Bragg has obtained nonpublic evidence of some other intended offense, like if there was any initial intention to deduct the payments as a business expense on state tax returns.


Bookkeeping fraud has a two-year statute of limitations as a misdemeanor and a five-year one as a felony, both of which would normally have expired for payments made to Mr. Cohen in 2017. But New York law extends those limits to cover periods when a defendant was continuously out of state, as Mr. Trump was while living in the White House or at his home in Florida. In addition, during the pandemic, New York’s statute of limitations was extended by more than a year.


Mar-a-Lago in Palm Beach, Fla.
Mr. Trump has claimed — without evidence — that he declassified all the files taken to Mar-a-Lago.Credit...Saul Martinez for The New York Times

Mar-a-Lago in Palm Beach, Fla.



The Mar-a-Lago Documents

Overview

Jack Smith, a special counsel for the federal Justice Department, is investigating matters related to Mr. Trump’s handling of several hundred documents marked as classified that he kept at his Florida club and home, Mar-a-Lago, after leaving office, and how Mr. Trump resisted efforts by the government to retrieve all of those files. After the Justice Department obtained a subpoena for all remaining files marked as classified, a lawyer for Mr. Trump, M. Evan Corcoran, turned over some while helping to draft a statement falsely saying those were all that remained. In August, the F.B.I. executed a search warrant and found 103 more, including in Mr. Trump’s desk.

Prosecutors last week persuaded a federal judge that Mr. Corcoran should be compelled to answer more questions from a grand jury investigating the documents matter, notwithstanding attorney-client privilege. That means the judge agreed with prosecutors that the situation met the threshold for an exception for lawyer communications or work that apparently helped further a crime.

Potential charge: Unauthorized retention of national security documents

One of the charges the F.B.I. listed in its affidavit for the Mar-a-Lago search warrant was Section 793(e) of Title 18, a provision of the Espionage Act. Prosecutors would have to show that Mr. Trump knew he was still in possession of the documents after leaving the White House and failed to comply when the government asked him to return them and then subpoenaed him. The theoretical penalty is up to 10 years per such document.


Prosecutors would also have to show that the documents related to the national defense, that they were closely held and that their disclosure could harm the United States or aid a foreign adversary. Although Mr. Trump has claimed — without evidence — that he declassified all the files taken to Mar-a-Lago, prosecutors would not need to prove that they were still classified because the Espionage Act predates the classification system and does not refer to it as an element.

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Potential charge: Obstruction

Another charge in the F.B.I. affidavit was Section 1519 of Title 18, which makes it a crime to conceal records to obstruct an official effort. Prosecutors would need to show that Mr. Trump knew he still had files that were responsive to the National Archives’ efforts to take custody of presidential records and the Justice Department’s subpoena for files marked as classified, and that he intentionally caused his subordinates to fail to turn them all over while leading officials to believe they had complied. The penalty is up to 20 years per offense.

Potential charge: Mishandling official documents

A third charge in the affidavit was Section 2071 of Title 18, which criminalizes the concealment or destruction of official documents, whether or not they were related to national security. Among other things, former aides to Mr. Trump have recounted how he sometimes ripped up official documents, and the National Archives has said that some of the Trump White House paper records transferred to it had been torn up — some of which were taped back together and some of which were not reconstructed. The penalty is up to three years per offense plus a ban on holding federal office, although the latter is most likely unconstitutional, legal experts say.

Potential charge: Contempt of court

Section 402 of Title 18 makes it a crime to willfully disobey a court order, like the grand jury subpoena Mr. Trump received in May 2022 requiring him to turn over all documents with classification markings remaining in his possession. It carries a penalty of a fine of up to $1,000 and up to six months in prison. To bring this charge, prosecutors would need evidence showing he knew that he was still holding onto other files with classification markings during and after his representatives purported to comply with the subpoena.

Potential charge: Conspiracy to make a false statement

Section 1001 of Title 18 makes it a crime to make a false statement to a law enforcement officer about a fact material to the officer’s investigation, and Section 371 makes it a crime to conspire with another person to break that or any other law. It carries a penalty of up to five years. Prosecutors would need to be able to show that Mr. Trump and Mr. Corcoran knew and agreed that the lawyer should lie to the Justice Department about there being no further documents responsive to the subpoena.


A woman approaches a table that holds a box of ballots as two others look inside the box.
Ballots being recounted in Atlanta, which is part of Fulton County, in 2020.Credit...Nicole Craine for The New York Times

A woman approaches a table that holds a box of ballots as two others look inside the box.

The Georgia Election Law Investigation

Overview

Fani T. Willis, the district attorney for Fulton County, Ga., is investigating events related to Mr. Trump’s attempts to overturn President Biden’s narrow victory in that state in the 2020 election. Among other things, in a phone call that was recorded and leaked, Mr. Trump called Georgia’s secretary of state, Brad Raffensperger, and pressured him to “find” enough additional votes for him to flip the outcome.

Ms. Willis is also investigating Trump associates’ efforts to get 16 of his supporters to falsely declare themselves to be an alternative slate of electors from Georgia, which helped lay the groundwork for Mr. Trump’s push to get Vice President Mike Pence to reject the true results when Congress met to certify the election on Jan. 6, 2021.

Potential charges: Election code violations

Most elections offenses in Georgia’s code are misdemeanors, but there are several felony charges that Ms. Willis may be considering, based on the same basic set of facts. These include Section 21-2-603, which makes it a crime to conspire with another person to violate a provision of the election code, and Section 21-2-604, which makes it a crime to solicit another person to commit election fraud.

To bring such a charge against Mr. Trump, prosecutors would need to cite another election law whose violation was his alleged goal. It is possible, for example, that they might be considering contending that Mr. Trump’s pushing Mr. Raffensperger to “find” additional votes amounted to implicitly asking him to violate a provision that makes it a felony for the secretary of state to alter official election records, but Mr. Trump’s language was not explicit.


Potential charge: Racketeering

Ms. Willis has indicated that she is considering bringing charges under Georgia’s Racketeer Influenced and Corrupt Organizations Act. So-called RICO laws are tools that were developed to make it easier to go after organized criminal enterprises, and can be used against members of any group that engaged in a pattern of criminal activities with a common purpose. A conviction would carry a maximum penalty of 20 years in prison.

To convict Mr. Trump under Georgia’s RICO law, Section 16-14-4, prosecutors would need to show that as part of his efforts with associates to overturn Georgia’s election results, he conspired with others or engaged in two or more offenses from a list of several dozen offenses, most of which are violent crimes but which include things like solicitation, forgery and making materially false statements to state officials.


A screen showing Mr. Trump above members of the House Jan. 6 committee.
The House Jan. 6 committee made a criminal referral of Mr. Trump and others to the Justice Department.Credit...Haiyun Jiang/The New York Times

A screen showing Mr. Trump above members of the House Jan. 6 committee.



The 2020 Election and Jan. 6

Overview

Mr. Smith, the special counsel, is also conducting a broader federal investigation into Mr. Trump’s attempt to overturn the 2020 election results and the events of Jan. 6. The House committee that carried out the investigation into the riot last year made a criminal referral of Mr. Trump and others to the Justice Department. While that was of largely symbolic value — the department already had an investigation open and Congress has no authority to prosecute — the analysis in the panel’s final report sets out possible charges that Mr. Smith could also consider.

Potential charge: Obstruction of an official proceeding

One criminal accusation the Jan. 6 committee leveled against Mr. Trump was the attempted corrupt obstruction of an official proceeding, under Section 1512(c) of Title 18. It is punishable by up to 20 years in prison. Prosecutors have used this law to charge about 300 ordinary Jan. 6 defendants — people who rioted — and an appeals court is currently weighing whether that charge has been appropriately applied in those cases. But even if the judiciary upholds use of the charge, such a case against Mr. Trump would be very different since he did not physically participate in the riot.


The Jan. 6 committee argued that he could be charged with it based on two sets of actions. First, it argued that his summoning of supporters to Washington and urging them to march on the Capitol and “fight like hell” violated that law. Mr. Trump’s defense team would surely seek to raise doubt about whether he intended for his supporters to riot, including because he also told them to protest “peacefully.”

Second, the committee portrayed as criminal obstruction the scheme to recruit so-called fake electors from various states and pressuring Mr. Pence to cite their existence as a basis to delay certifying the election. The panel stressed how Mr. Trump had been told that there was no truth to his claims of a stolen election, which it said proved his intentions were corrupt. Among other things, Mr. Trump’s defense team would surely argue that because a lawyer, John Eastman, advised him to take those steps, there is no proof he understood that doing so was illegal.

Potential charge: Conspiracy to defraud the United States

A second criminal accusation leveled by the Jan. 6 committee was Section 371 of Title 18, which makes it a crime, punishable by up to five years in prison, to conspire with another person to defraud the government. The panel cited an array of evidence about Mr. Trump’s interactions with various lawyers and aides in pursuit of his effort to prevent the certification of Mr. Biden’s electoral victory. The committee also argued that prosecutors could prove Mr. Trump intended to be deceitful via evidence that he was repeatedly told that his allegations of widespread voter fraud were baseless.

Potential charge: Conspiracy to make a false statement

The Jan. 6 committee highlighted the efforts to submit slates of fake electors to Congress and to the National Archives. As with other such potential charges, a key challenge for prosecutors would be proving Mr. Trump’s intentions and understanding beyond a reasonable doubt.

Potential charge: Insurrection

The committee also pointed to Section 2383 of Title 18, which makes it a crime to incite, assist or “aid and comfort” an insurrection against the authority and laws of the federal government. The panel emphasized in particular how Mr. Trump refused for hours to take steps to call off the rioters despite being implored by aides to do so, and an inflammatory tweet he sent about Mr. Pence in the midst of the violence.

While the committee said the events of Jan. 6 met the standard for an insurrection, it is notable that prosecutors have not accused any of the Jan. 6 defendants to date of that offense — even those they charged with seditious conspiracy.


How Much Are You Worth? Depends on Who You Ask!


A father told his daughter, "Congrats on your graduation. I bought you a car a while back. I want you to have it now."

Before I give it to you, take it to a car dealer in the city and try to sell it. See how much they offer.”

The girl came back to her father and said: 

"They offered me $10,000 dollars because it looks very old"

Father said: "Ok, now take it to the pawn shop".

The girl returned to her father and said: 

"The pawn shop offered $1,000 dollars because it's a very old car and a lot of work done".

The father told her to join a passionate car club with experts and show them the car. The girl drove to the passionate car club. She returned to her father after a few hours and told him, 

Some people in the club offered me $100,000 dollars because it's a rare car that's in good condition.”

Then the father said, 

"I wanted to let you know that you are not worth anything if you are not in the right place. If you are not appreciated, do not be angry, that means you are in the wrong place. "Don't stay in a place where no one sees your value ."

BTW:  The car pictured is a Lamborghini Countach 

This story reminds me of a couple of short saying... 

"An Indy Race Car is useless on city streets, while a regular race car is useless in an Indy Car race.  Make sure you run in the right race if you want to succeed."

Or maybe, conversely, 

"A beautiful rose is an unwanted weed in a cornfield just as cornstalks are ugly weeds in a rose garden.  Make sure you put down roots in the right place".

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Keeping Children Safe Online

Social media is popular with children and teenagers. It's a great way to stay connected with friends and family, but it can also be a dangerous place. Predators can use social media to contact and groom potential victims, and children can be exposed to inappropriate content. So, how can we keep our children safe on social media?

At Safesocialonline.com children age 6 - 17 must be enrolled by a parent.  No other adults can see a child's account, and children cannot see other adult accounts.  This way we eliminate the threat of predatory users. If a child posts something inappropriate the parent is notified so a conversation can take place to guide the child on appropriate language and content.    

In addition, all new adult members are verified by phone, email, and driver's license to make sure they are real people.  Those in the USA are checked in a nationwide sexual offender registry and cannot open an account if they are listed. This protects children and even adults too!

That being said, it's important to have an open dialogue with your child about online safety. Remind them not to share personal information or meet up with strangers they've met online.  Finally, make sure your child knows how to report any suspicious behavior or inappropriate content they come across. 

By taking these precautions, you can help keep your child safe when they're using social media.  

SafeSocialOnline.com is the best place to let children use social media due to many layers of protection.

See a complete list of our child safety features here.

Other Social Media: From Fad and Doubt to Disaster.


Social Media as we know it today seemed unlikely in its early years.   

"In the early 2010s, the most common knock on social media apps like Facebook and Twitter was that they just wouldn’t work as businesses. Pundits predicted that users would eventually tire of their friends’ vacation photos, that advertisers would flee and that the whole social media industry would collapse. The theory wasn’t so much that social media was dangerous or bad; just that it was boring and corny, a hype-driven fad that would disappear as quickly as it had arrived.

What nobody was asking back then — at least not loudly — were questions like: What if social media is actually insanely successful? What kind of regulations would need to exist in a world where Facebook and Twitter were the dominant communication platforms? How should tech companies with billions of users weigh the trade-offs between free speech and safety? What product features could prevent online hate and misinformation from cascading into offline violence?

By the middle of the decade, when it was clear that these were urgent questions, it was too late. The platform mechanics and ad-based business models were already baked in, and skeptics — who might have steered these apps in a better direction, if they’d taken them more seriously from the start — were stuck trying to contain the damage."1  

1. Source:  https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2022/03/18/technology/cryptocurrency-crypto-guide.html?action=click

Now that we are here, when it is now widely known that existing social media giants won't solve the problems that have grown more and more prevalent, such as bullying, hate speech, even radicalization and murder... we at SafeSocialOnline.com were inspired to build a safer social media that doesn't lead to 'fights between friends' or racial or ethnic or religious violence. We are not tied to nor dependent on advertiser dollars the way the other platforms are.  We don't report your browsing habits, nor shopping habits, nor sell personal information to advertisers.  We respect your privacy.   C'mon!  Join in to support better, kinder, gentler, safer, ethical social media!

Wise Words

These words from actor Anthony Hopkins are brutal:

Let go of people who aren't ready to love you.

This is the hardest thing you will ever have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing.

Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.

Stop showing up for people who have no interest in your presence.

I know your instinct is to do everything you can to gain the appreciation of those around you, but it's an impulse that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health.

When you start fighting for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you to that place.

That doesn't mean you have to change who you are, it means you have to let go of people who aren't ready to be with you.

If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to, you are not doing yourself a favor by continuing to offer them your energy and your life.

Truth is, you're not for everyone and not everyone is for you.

This is what makes it so special when you find people that you have friendship or love matched.
You will know how precious it is because you've experienced what it isn't.

There are billions of people on this planet and a lot of them you will find at your level of interest and commitment.

Maybe if you stop showing up, they won't look for you.

Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship ends.

Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for weeks.

That doesn't mean you ruined the relationship, it means the only thing that was holding it was the energy that only you gave to keep it.

That's not love, that's attachment.

It's giving a chance to those who don't deserve it!

You deserve so much more.

The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy as both are limited.

The people and things you give your time and energy to, will define your existence.

When you realize this you start to understand why you’re so anxious when you spend time with people, activities or spaces that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be near you.

You’ll start to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you, is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else.

Make your life a safe haven, in which only people "compatible" with you are allowed.

You are not responsible for saving anyone.

It's not your responsibility to convince them to improve.

It's not your job to exist for people and give them your life!

You deserve real friendships, true commitments, and complete love with healthy, prosperous people.

Deciding to distance yourself from harmful people, will give you the love, esteem, happiness and protection you deserve.

To this, I Lonn Dugan Add, When you are focused on the positive, and surrounded by people who support you instead of tear you down, you will accomplish the GREAT THINGS that you were born to accomplish.  Otherwise, you will be stuck in a rut of OTHER PEOPLE'S making.  Don't do that.  Really.  Make your own way and surround yourself with people who will support you in that effort!  Leave the others behind.  Hard? Yes.  Necessary?  Yes.  Even Jesus of Nazareth left people behind.  Want to know more?  Just ask.


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